Especially for the bedroom, these wrist to thigh restraints are for the more adventurous of you all. Being restrained doesn't have to take place in a 50 Shades-esque sex dungeon; it can also be a very light and playful experience. “Even if you're not someone who considers themselves particularly kinky or into BDSM, restraint can still be erotic to dabble in,” says Taylor Sparks, an erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven. “Especially nowadays, it's an incredible release and relief to pass off control for a little bit, and a simple restraint can turn your mind off like a switch." While 50 Shades of Grey got many, many things wrong when it comes to BDSM relationships, the series did get one thing right: consensually restraining a partner (or being restrained) with handcuffs can create an intimate and powerful sexual experience. The person doing the restraining—referred to as the "top" in BDSM lingo—can do whatever they damn well please, while the bottom is in the vulnerable (and titillating) position of being at their mercy. There's an element of deep trust that comes with using handcuffs and other restraints during sex.